Sapiosexual Goddess Seeking… Oh Wait, Who Are You?

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Ladies, listen up! I get it, you’re a sapiosexual. You crave deep intellectual connections and want someone who loves you for your brainpower. Admirable! But let’s talk strategy here. You’re on a dating app, and while it’s fantastic you want someone to cherish your mind, remember that men are visual creatures. They’re not exactly Sherlock Holmes, trying to deduce your awesomeness from a blank profile pic.

Imagine this: You stroll into a party with a bag over your head and shout, “Love me for my personality!” Yeah, good luck with that. In the world of dating apps, no profile photo is like showing up to a beach party in a snowsuit – confusing, off-putting, and frankly, not very effective.

And your bio? “I’m sapiosexual.” Wonderful, but 90% of men will think you just made a typo or are into some weird kind of sushi. If they have to Google what sapiosexual means, they’re already swiping left. Most guys don’t want to consult a dictionary before deciding if they like you. They’re swiping left faster than you can say “intellectual compatibility.”

Here’s the deal: Men swipe right on faces, then stick around for the brains. No photo? No chance. So, show that lovely face of yours! If you want him to get to third base with your mind, he’s got to see you’re on first base with his eyes.

Remember, dating is like fishing – if you don’t put any bait on the hook, you’ll just sit there with an empty line. So, snap a pic, show the world your smile, and let the sapiosexual magic happen after he knows what you look like.