Dating App Profile Tips: Ladies, Age is Just a Number (But Don’t Hide It)

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Ladies, we need to talk about the age-old (pun intended) dilemma: Should you put your age in your dating app profile? You might be tempted to leave it blank, list it as “none of your business,” or channel your inner 1940s dame and say, “It’s not polite to ask a woman her age.” But let’s get real: this is the 21st century, and transparency is key—whether you’re a Millennial, Gen Xer, or a proud member of the Boomer brigade.

First, let’s address the elephant in the room. We all know younger men have a thing for older women. Acronyms like MILF didn’t invent themselves, right? So, if you’re embracing your inner cougar and are ready to pounce on those ripe-for-the-picking cubs, more power to you! Own it, flaunt it, and watch those matches light up like a Christmas tree.

But let’s also be honest about another reality: procreation. If you’re a woman in your 40s or 50s, and your dream is to start a family, it’s crucial to acknowledge the biological clock. Science tells us that, in general, there can be more challenges with age. This doesn’t mean it’s impossible, but it’s a conversation worth having. And hey, there’s nothing wrong with wanting a younger partner to grow old with, sharing those sunsets and early-bird specials.

Now, let’s talk about those profile photos. Ladies, we’ve all seen the heavily filtered pictures that make you look like you just walked off a college campus. But if your suitor shows up to the date expecting to see a 20-something and is greeted by someone who’s a week away from retirement, it’s going to be awkward. Embrace your age and put up photos that reflect who you truly are. A few wrinkles and gray hairs show you’ve lived, loved, and learned—qualities that are far more attractive than a misleading snapshot.

Here’s the deal: honesty is sexy. When you put your real age out there, you filter out those who aren’t genuinely interested. Yes, some men may swipe left, but do you really want someone who’s not on board with the fabulous, mature you?

Ladies, while it’s not the 1940s, and we’re all about that female empowerment, remember that clarity goes a long way. So, go ahead, add your age to your profile. Be proud of every year you’ve lived. Whether you’re looking for a younger man with a thing for experienced women or a peer who understands the joys of a well-aged wine, the right match will appreciate the real you.

So ditch the filters, embrace the laugh lines, and let your age shine like the fine wine you are. Happy dating!